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Tracking Spending: A Foundational Skill of Personal Finance

BLUF: A key foundational skill is knowing how to track your spending. Tracking spending brings awareness to where the money goes so you can cut out the waste. Understanding your annual spending is also necessary to know how much money you need in retirement.

Mrs. MFI and I used to watch a online personal finance show called Til Debt Do Us Part. A guilty pleasure that both helped scare us into being good with our money and also made us feel good that we weren’t in financial situations like these. It was about couples who were in serious debt usually through excessive spending on stuff. The format of the show always includes the participants estimating their monthly spending and current debt levels and then the host reveals what they’re really spending using their statements. Watch until the 7 minute mark and you’ll see an example of that part of the show.

One common theme across every episode of the show is that the participants don’t track their spending and have no idea how much they’re truly spending. This couple had no idea what their monthly spending was and they also under estimated their total debt by $33k!

Television shows like this obviously use the most extreme cases for shock and awe entertainment value but unfortunately this is a pretty common problem. A Mint.com survey in 2020 showed that 65% of people surveyed didn’t know how much they spent last month.

What is Tracking Spending?

The concept of tracking spending is not hard to understand as the name mostly gives it away. You keep track of every dollar that you spend so that you can see where the money goes. A common way would be to record each financial transaction and categorize that transaction.

An example of tracking transactions is shown below from a tool called You Need A Budget (YNAB) which I love and use daily. Each line is a transaction that is then assigned a category. The categories can be whatever you want them to be. They’re just buckets to let you track the different types of spending. This becomes important later when you want to see at a lower level where most of your money is going.

There are many tools available to help with tracking and multiple ways to track spending which we’ll dive into later.

Tracking Spending vs Budgeting

I think it’s an important time to point out that sometimes people talk about tracking spending and budgeting as if they are the same thing. They are NOT!

  • Tracking Spending – You spend money without any awareness of how much you could spend. You record the transactions and categorize them after the spending is done.
  • Budgeting – You have a plan for how your income will be spent before you actually spend the money. As life happens and money is spent you tweak your budget as needed on a month to month basis to try and keep the overall spending for the year to your plan. A deep dive into budgeting here.

Why is Tracking Spending Important?

There’s a reason that I called tracking spending a foundational skill in personal finance. It is so critically important that you understand where your money goes and unless you track it you really can’t know for sure. According to this Mint.com survey, 65% of Americans had no idea what they spent last month.

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People are also really bad at estimating since we’re filled with biases and optimism when it comes to our own actions. We never think we’re spending as much as we do so it’s critical to let the numbers do the talking. Otherwise we’re just guessing.

“What Gets Measured Gets Improved” – Peter Drucker

Peter Drucker said that famous quote many years. In business he was referring to the fact that if you track or measure something in business then you create awareness and you will improve what is being tracked.

Have you ever heard of a business that bought whatever it needed without tracking where the money was being spent on? Of course not unless it was an unsuccessful business. Why would you expect your household to be successful unless you track and understand where you are spending your money? When you track your person spending you create awareness of where the money is going and that will naturally lead to improvement.

At the end of 2018 I did my first annual summary of my spending for the year 2018. I didn’t track anything along the way but it was the first time even trying to see my overall spending and trying to categorize it. In 2019 I did the annual summary and bucketizing after the fact again but wasn’t yet looking for opportunities to reduce the spending significantly. It just seemed too painful to track every transaction.

In early 2020 I found FI and using 2019 data I started to making changes to reduce our spending. In December 2020 I went all in with YNAB tracking all expenses and truly budgeting for the first time. The results below speak for themselves. You can see what awareness of spending from tracking coupled with action can do for reducing your expenses. If you’re interested in the details of how I chopped down spending you can read about it here.

Beware of falling annual spending! 2019 included a $15,000 vacation instead of the normal $5,000 or the spending would have dropped every year.
I guess the pandemic in 2020 made us eat more?
I had an Amazon problem that I didn’t realize until I saw the data.

Spending is the Easiest to Control

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A simple formula for personal finance is savings = income – expenses. Most people they can’t make an instant change today and impact their income in a meaningful way tomorrow. As much as we’d love to give ourselves a raise when needed that’s rarely in our control. What we spend, however, is something that is in our control.

Tracking spending allows us to look at the areas where we might be wasting money and see what can be done to save money in those areas. Housing, transportation and food are the “big 3” expense categories for most people but all areas should be explored. Even saving $20 a week is still $1,000 a year.

FI Number Requires Annual Spending

This wouldn’t be an FI blog post without talking about the magic FI number which is based off 25 times your annual expenses (the 4% rule of thumb). What’s the only variable in that magical equation? Annual expenses? What does tracking spending tell you? Your annual expenses today.

Now, a true FI number is 25 * annual retirement expenses but until you get closer to FI enough to understand those retirement details you use your current annual expenses as your northern star.

The other magical thing to think about is your FI number in reverse. What do I mean by that? Since your annual expenses sets your FI number, ever dollar you reduce in annual spending saves $25 that you need in investible accounts. Every $1,000 in annual spending saved reduces your FI number by $25,000! How easy might it be to cut $20 a week in spending versus how hard is it to save $25,000?

For example, if my in 2018 cost $81,000. If that was my consistent spending then my FI number would be $81,000 * 25 = $2,025,000! Two million! My projected annual expenses for 2021 will be $52,000. Carried forward our FI number has dropped to $52,000*25 = $1,300,000. Wow. Making a number of life changes has dropped the amount we need to save by $725,000. That’s a lot of years of work time saved.

Laying the Budgeting Foundation

As previously mentioned, tracking expenses is not budgeting. However, it’s pretty hard to come up with a reasonable starting point for a budget unless you have general idea of how much money flows out of your wallet on average each month. Is $5,000 total a month reasonable? Is $500 a month reasonable to spend on food? $1,000? Your guess is as good as mine since everyone is different. Track spending first, then move onto budgeting.

How to Track Spending

Alright, enough already about why you probably should be tracking your spending and onto the real meat of the discussion. How do you actually track your spending?

Well, there are a variety of ways to track spending and you can choose the one that fits the amount of effort you want to spend, the level of detail you want and your personal lifestyle. I’ll go through a few common ones that I’ve used personally or have heard about others using.

For each method there are a variety of tools at your disposal to make the job easier. The good news? It’s never been easier to track your spending with so many great software tools that connect automatically with banks and credit cards.

Track At the Summary Level (Monthly / Yearly)

This is the “keep it simple” method to start. The goal here is to baby step you into the tracking spending without overwhelming you. After all, if you quit because it’s too much work then that’s not very helpful. If you’ve never tracked your spending before I’d recommend that you start here.

All we’re going to do is understand how much money you’ve spent on a monthly and yearly level using summaries from each account. You won’t necessarily understand how you’re spending the money yet, just how much. However, the hope here is that it’s easy and eye opening enough to make you want to dig for more answers.

  1. Make a list of all the ways that you spend money – Checking accounts and credit card that you use.
  2. Use online summary tools for each account to note how much you spent using that account or card last month.
  3. Add up the spending for each account. For bank accounts be careful to ignore transactions where money was just moved from one account to another. You may want to use a spreadsheet to keep track of the spending for each account for that month. After all, you’re going to keep doing this, right?
  4. Look at the data and see what it tells you. Are you spending more than you make? If you multiply that monthly amount by 12 how much would you spend a year? Unfortunately a single month will be a distorted view since everyone’s expenses has peaks and valleys.
  5. Continue this to see what you’ve spent for the last 6 months. That’s generally a much better way to get a monthly average.
  6. Jump back and pull the summary data from the previous full year and see what you spent last year. Credit cards often have online spending reports that can be pulled like the one from Citibank. The categories aren’t always the most useful but again the focus is the overall number. Does your annual spending surprise you compared with your annual take home pay?

Note: If your income is heavily cash based like a waitress or bartender and you don’t deposit that money directly into a bank account then it might be tricky to understand your spending in hindsight. If you don’t want to deposit the money then you’ll need to record each day how much cash income you’re making. That way you can check at month end how much cash you still have remaining on hand to determine what you’ve spent.

Track Every Transaction (What I use)

This is the most detailed method but with the tools available today it’s very easy to track and categorize each expense. It might take half a day or day to learn the tool and get it setup but after that it’s easy. As previously mentioned, I use YNAB and I probably spend 15 minutes a week dealing with transactions and categorizing them.

Choosing Categories

Using this method you’re going to keep track of every spending transaction and you’re going to put each transaction into a category or spending “bucket”. That way, you can measure each bucket at the end of every month or year and know what you’ve spent.

You have the flexibility to make as many or as few categories as you want. Just know that if you’ll have fewer categories you’ll have less granularity for your data in understand where the money is really going. For example, you could have the following categories as a very basic system:

  • Housing (Mortgage, Rent, Maintenance costs, related insurance)
  • Transportation (Car payments, car insurance, maintenance costs, gas, tolls, ride share)
  • Food (Groceries, eating out, alcohol, work lunches)
  • Everything else (Vacation, shopping, charity, personal care, entertainment, etc)

You could choose these 4 very high level categories of housing, transportation, food and everything else. It’s certainly better than nothing but it might not give you all the insights you want.

As you can see by the categories in parenthesis you can certainly break these high level categories down into many more categories. The key here is to just pick some categories and start tracking. There’s no perfect compliment and over time you’ll change what’s important for you to track.

What Categories I Use:

I use three high level groups for my categories called Core, Discretionary and Business expenses. Core expenses are everything I have to pay each month. If I lost my job I wouldn’t look at the core expenses for places to cut cost. That’s not to say that I couldn’t find something to cut, but I don’t plan financially on being able to cut here.

Discretionary expenses are the extra things in my life that I could partially or completely cut if I lost my job or something else bad happened. Now, this is a very individual choice for what goes in core versus discretionary. Don’t judge me for having charity in my discretionary expenses.

Why track core and discretionary expenses separately? Well it conveniently gives me the data that I need to calculate the size of my emergency fund.

Adding Transactions

This is very easy because I don’t have to do anything usually with YNAB. All of my accounts are in YNAB and linked to my financial institutions. Whenever there’s a new transaction to do something with a dot will appear next to the account name and those transactions are imported. The software makes a pretty good guess at the categories most of the time but if it doesn’t know it says “This needs a category”.

Bob Johnson Toyota in this case was getting my car serviced so I selected the Auto Maintenance category in my Core Expenses.

Seeing Where the Money Went

By tracking spending at the transaction level it becomes very clear to see month to month and year to date exactly where your money is going. For example here is my June spending on Core Expenses.

We adopted a dog in June and with all the accompanying medical care and “stuff” that comes with a new pooch that was a high spending month. Same with healthcare as I had a procedure and accompanying appointments. If we took these two areas and multiplied by 12 months we’d get $12k of pet expenses and $8k of healthcare! Ouch. But that’s not really the case because monthly spikes happen and they aren’t consistent. Let’s look for January through June of 2021 to get a better idea.

When you look at 6 months of data the averages become more normal. We lost our dog to cancer in March so there were still a lot unusually high pet expense months but it’s $3k for the first half of the year. Barring anything catastrophic happening we’ll be able to keep things within the $3,500 pet expense budget for the year.

A similar story for healthcare. June was heavy but only $732 was spent from Jan-June or $106/mo.

Other Tools

I’m partial to YNAB because it’s just worked very well and I also use it for budgeting. But it does cost $84/year and while I think I more than save that much by using it in money and time that’s a turn off for some people.

  • Mint.com – Now owned by Intuit, the same company as TurboTax is a free tool for tracking expenses. It can also link to online accounts and import transactions. I tried it years ago and was frustrated in not getting my transactions and balances to match up. I know plenty of others that use it successfully though.
  • Spreadsheet – Old school but it works. It is a lot more work to do everything from manually entering transactions to summarizing the data but it is an option.
  • Paper – Even more old school with all the downsides of a spreadsheet plus you’ll have to manually calculate spending and averages.
  • Other – There are many other tools out there. Some are called “budgeting” apps but I’m not sure how well they do in that regard. I’ll let you read reviews and decide for yourself.

Other Benefits of Tracking Spending

There are a couple of side benefits worth noting by tracking spending in a detailed way.

  1. More conscious spender – When you see real time how much money is going out the door it makes you more hyper aware of your spending. That in turn makes me think about purchases more carefully before I made them.
  2. Awareness of fraud – By seeing every transaction that hits your accounts on a daily basis you will spot unusual transactions right away.
  3. Easy to see all transactions – Instead of logging into each online account the data is all there right on one dashboard. I don’t have to go hunting down data figuring out which card and which month I spent something.
  4. Peace of Mind – I’ve found that I have more peace of mind when I feel like I have the full spending picture.

Action Steps:

  • If you want to tiptoe in tracking spending:
    • Make a list of all your spending accounts and then look up what you spent last month using online summaries. How does that compare with what you thought? To your income?
    • Repeat that for the last 6 months. If you really want to dig in look up summary spending for the previous year.
  • If you want to jump all in:
    • Research the tracking tools like YNAB, Mint.com or others and pick one. I’m partial to YNAB which does have a free 35 day trial. If you use my referral link we each get a an extra free month of YNAB.
    • Make a list of categories to track. DON’T get paralyzed here! Take a stab at it thinking through your spending and run with it.
    • Track! Things will be slow at first with any tool but you’ll get faster and more efficient.
    • Don’t sweat the small stuff – some people obsess over where every penny goes. Don’t stress over every dollar. We’re looking to find and fix big spending issues, not little ones.
  • Move on to budgeting!

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Happiness Dividends: Making your Experiences Pay you Back

BLUF: Our experiences, like investments, have the ability to pay us a dividend long after the original experience is over in the form of happiness. These dividends increase our happiness through the recalling of those happy original experiences. Unlike investments, however, we have the ability to force those happiness dividends to be paid on demand through our actions.

Note: The cover photo is from the Albuquerque balloon festival, the largest in the world. The “balloon glow” is when all pilots stand up their balloons at night and illuminate them with the burner. It’s truly stunning to see and hear hundreds of balloons doing this at the same time.

I recently read the book Die with Zero by Bill Perkins. The title comes from the idea that to maximize your happiness in life you should really aim to spend down or give away all your money such that at the end you die with close to $0. A idea in that book that resonated with me was the concept that experiences, like money, can compound and pay dividends to us over the course of our life. The idea was especially intriguing to me since I’ve been changing my spending focus from things to experiences over the last 10 or so years.

My Journey Away From Consumerism

One very substantial change in my life that happened progressively over time was the change from valuing stuff to valuing experiences. I was very fortunate to grow up in an upper middle class family that could afford nice things. I got a TV for my room when I graduated elementary school. In the mid-90’s when computers were very expensive we constantly bought the latest trends whether it be a full desktop computer, a CD burning drive or having Road Runner high speed internet (cable modem).

As a twenty something I wanted to have all of the same cool new gadgets that seemed to be coming out constantly. When DVD players were brand new I was still in college making very little money and I bought one new for $500. I also put together a 5.1 surround sound system with the main driver being to watch this cool new movie that came out called “The Matrix.” As sweet as it was to hear bullets flying past your head for the first time, it was a lot of money to spend for a kid that didn’t really have any.

When my divorce happened at 31 and I was faced with both a tougher financial reality paying for a house and lifestyle alone along with going through the experience of separating “stuff.” I think that started to change my worldview that the pursuit of stuff wasn’t adding a lot to my life and it could of course disappear at any time. I also realized that the concerts, parties and vacations that I had experienced were a lot more enjoyable to me and started to focus a bit more on spending on my money there.

How Experiences Pay Us Back in Happiness Dividends

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I used to think about stuff as more valuable than experiences because I perceived that stuff could keep paying me back with it’s utility. For example, that $500 DVD player is something that I could enjoy for at least two or three years watching movies. By contrast, if I took a $500 vacation for a long weekend then I thought that I would only get 3 days of enjoyment from that experience.

The experience itself was usually much cooler than the “thing” I would otherwise buy but the stuff had the capability to hang around in my life for much longer. To have more enjoyment from experiences meant that I would need to schedule another and another because the happiness derived from the experience only happened while I was living it.

Thinking about Individual Experiences

I could have a really great experience like a Caribbean cruise vacation one year and reap the benefits of that time away. Relaxing on the upper deck sipping a cocktail. Enjoying fancy restaurant meals or gut busting all you can eat buffets. Seeing great onboard entertainment like singers serenating us and comedians making us laugh until our stomach hurts. Taking excursions at port stops to have experiences like feeding the stingrays.

A great week that’s high up on the happiness scale but after a couple weeks back at work you’re thinking about what to do next. Then perhaps the next year you go see a great concert that you’ve always wanted to see. And then the next year you throw a surprise birthday party for a great friend of yours. Each event in itself is wonderful but they are each discreet events that when over, the happiness gained from that event effectively ends.

The Happiness Dividend Concept

This thinking was flawed though, because that’s not how experiences work when it comes to the happiness that we derive from them. There’s actually a cumulative effect to it where old experiences that are truly meaningful to you are stored in your memory banks. When you recall memories of that experience due to some trigger like looking at a picture, that experience pays you a happiness dividend. You are transported back to the time when the picture was taken and derive a sense of gratitude. If it was very memorable you might be able to recall the smell of the ocean from the cruse ship deck or the feel of the stingrays sucking food out of your hands.

Looking at my previous experience timeline example, the timeline actually starts to look at this. That Caribbean cruise was a tremendous experience in the year that it happened. However, in year two on the anniversary of the cruise your Facebook memories pop up with pictures from your cruise that happened one year ago and you are transported back. Maybe you sit down with your partner and open up the pictures from that trip and take a walk down memory lane. You laugh about the things that didn’t go right but turned out to be a great adventure. You enjoy recalling your favorite “remember when…” moments to each other.

The joy, gratitude and happiness that you feel during the recollection of fond memories is the happiness dividend being payed to you from that previous experience. You get paid this happiness dividend from that old experience and it didn’t cost you any money. Then the next year your friend comes to you thinking about taking a similar cruise and asks for your help in planning it since you’ve taken the cruise. You get to once again recall all of the details of the experience all while helping your friend. Another happiness dividend paid on the original experience.

Over time you see that this can cause your level of happiness to build from each successful new experience on top of the dividends paid from old experiences. Just like a financial dividend paid on a stock, the longer you have to remember the experience, the more time you have to be paid dividends. This is a strong motivating factor to really use the energy of your teens, 20’s and 30’s to make some great memories and get those happiness dividends flowing early in life. That maximizes the time in your life that you have for those experience based “investments” to pay you back in happy memories.

Being FI minded, there’s obviously a balance to find between spending all your money on experiences when you’re younger and have less income and saving and investing for the future. The great thing about being young, though, is that you’re typically willing to put up with some much cheaper and less comfortable options that the later in life you wouldn’t dream of doing. Backpacking around to travel, sleeping in hostels, taking long road trips, getting the cheap seats at a concert. The key thing is that you’re trying new things and making memories that you can then start recalling. No great story starts with “I went to bed early.”

Increasing Happiness Dividends

A beautiful thing about experience based happiness dividends is that you can control the size and frequency of that dividend. If only we had the ability to do that with our financial investments…

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Increasing the Dividend Amount

Have you ever noticed that not all experiences are created equal? I’m not just talking about the “in the moment” how awesome it feels. I’m talking about how you feel years later when you think about memories of that experience. Why do you remember some more often than others? Why do you remember some very fondly and can be transported back to that place and time? Why are some barely able to be remembered?

To increase the dividend amount we want to have more fulfilling and impactful experiences. Unfortunately, I can’t give you a precise answer to that because it could be different for each of us. My opinion is that it can be one or more components that matter most to us.

Experience Components that May be Important:

  • Doing something new or novel. Often things I’m recalling are some experience that is very different from anything else in my life. For example, the article feature image are hot air balloons lighting up in the evening when the burners were turned.
  • It involves people. It could be family, friends or complete strangers. I’ve found that my richest experiences involve people. Often times it’s bonding with others using that experience. Sometimes the experience is really making a deep connection with another person through a meaningful, deep conversation.
  • It involves multiple senses – Touch, taste, sight, sound and smell.
  • It involves emotions. If you experienced excitement, anxiety, nervousness, joy, pain as a part of the experience it could very well become something that stands out in your memories.
  • It involves something that you already love as a hobby or passion. Animals, sports, race cars, painting or gardening just to name a few.
  • It involves laughter. There’s just something about laughter that not only makes you happy but can turn an average evening into a memorable one.

For me personally the one that seems to be most important is people. There’s something about experiences that involve connecting with people that make that one of the most important ingredients to my memorable experiences.

Increasing the Dividend Frequency

Forget quarterly dividends, when it comes to happiness dividends you actually have the ability to make them pay out on demand. The key is that you aren’t just leaving the recollection of those memories to chance due to a trigger from the environment around you like something on TV. If you take deliberate action then you can enable the recalling of memories when you want to.

One of my favorite ways is to post up pictures of my experience on social media like Facebook (FB) or Instagram (IG). On a daily basis I can pull up the “memories” and see everything that I experienced on that particular day. It transports me back in time reminding me of things that I had forgotten about. Vacations, festivals, concerts and any number of other memorable things. If I happen to be getting together with other people that were also part of that experience then the dividend can grow as we reminisce about that shared experience.

Ideas to Recall Memories more Consistently:

  • Post on social media and then look at FB memories, IG memories, FB/IG stories archive daily.
  • Post reviews of experiences on TripAdvisor.
  • Join travel groups and help share your knowledge which will also make you think back to those trips and look through pictures.
  • Make the recalling of memories a conversation topic when you get together with family and friends. Ask people to discuss their favorite experience from the past year.
  • Look at old photo albums / online archives from your experiences more regularly. Pick one or two and review it. I like to organize my photos chronologically by experience which makes this easier.

Connecting Old Memories with New Ones

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Do you have fond childhood memories of visiting a certain place or doing a certain activity? If you re-do that experience with other people that you care about like your children, other family or friends then you can create a whole new memory. However, that newer experience based memory has a connection back to the old memory because there’s a common thread of the experience. Now there’s a forever connection between the two and recalling either fond memory will pull forward the memory of the other.

For example, if going to the state fair and riding the Ferris wheel was a fond memory from your childhood then consider repeating that experience with your children and grand children. Repeating that experience will make you recall and tell stories about when you used to ride the Ferris wheel with your parents and how much you loved it. In the future you can then remember the experience both as a child and then as a parent sharing it with your child.

We Aren’t Getting any Younger

It’s also important to start young because some experiences will not be possible or desirable to do after a certain point. Despite what we may tell ourselves, our bodies age and get less capable over time. No matter how good the 50 year old you feels, your body can not handle and recover from physical activity like it could when 20. There are certain physical experiences that if you want to have them, you need to do them by a certain age.

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Eventually they won’t be possible like climbing a high peak or taking an expedition to a remote jungle. Even if you are physically capable of doing it when older, it might be so much less enjoyable because of the increased aches and pains that you might not even want to do it. A hard truth is that one day you won’t be able to do most of these experiences. All that you will have will be your memories of past experiences to pay you happiness dividends. Start investing.

Action Steps:

  • Making Memorable Experiences:
    • Figure out what kinds of experiences bring you the most joy. Is it trying new things? Is it doing things with people? Combining experiences with things that you love? Figure out what you enjoy most and do more of that.
    • Consider bucketizing experiences by age range so that you do the most physically demanding ones earlier in life.
    • Make a plan to regularly research and seek out new experiences.
    • Try to make a backlog of things that you’d like to do and then actively work on planning to do each one.
    • Use some form of social media like FaceBook to document your experience.
    • Take lots of pictures but don’t miss the whole experience focused on capturing it with your phone.
  • Getting Happiness Dividends:
    • Look back at your Facebook memories on a daily basis. “On this day X years ago.” Don’t wait for the FB algorithm to maybe bring one up. Go to your profile > Memories section and look at all of them for that day.
    • Go through travel and experience pictures periodically.
    • Think back to a time or place in your life and try to recall every memory that you can. For example, every memory that you have from high school. Write them down as you go and see how much you can remember.
    • Join interest groups around your experiences like a Facebook travel group or forum so that you can recall and talk about those experiences.
    • Ask friends and family about their favorite experiences lately. In turn, share yours.

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